I don't know everything, but I share with them what I think they can do.
~ words from Ibu that keep us thinking and wondering ~
Not hers. Not yours. People are always more than the chapters anyone could share. Hold what is here gently. Approach with curiosity, before judgment.
Notice what you notice. Wonder what you wonder. There is no quiz, no right way. Read until something stays.
this film has no words. notice what you notice. notice what you wonder. wonder out loud. and don't forget to notice what you feel, too.
Listen Up
What are some of the roles in your life that are important to you? Does your identity change depending on where you are or who you are with? Or does it stay the same no matter what? Can you share an example with me?
I tell them what I think is best. I’m not perfect. I don’t know everything, but I share with them what I think they can do. Whom do you go to when you need advice? What does this person do or say that helps you? Do people ever come to you for advice? How does listening play a role in providing support for someone?
Sometimes if I am talking with three other women, we will each sit in a corner of the shape below. Can you tell me what type of shape it is? How do you know?
Are you surprised when I say, “I believe we all have goodness within us,” even though someone robbed me in the past? Do you think that if one person commits a wrong, that all people are bad? Why or why not?
My mother wasn’t happy, but I thought it was so much fun! Can you share with me a time when your parents were angry with you for doing something they didn’t agree with? Did you disagree with them? How did you feel inside when this happened? Can you try understanding their perspective, even if it is different from yours?
I always liked to jump in the longest puddles– can you help me figure out which is longer than the other? Look at the puddle below: is Puddle 1 longer or shorter than 5 squares?
Now, is Puddle 2 longer or shorter than 5 squares?
So, is Puddle 1 longer or shorter than Puddle 2?
(Ask students to close their eyes and breathe deeply for 2 minutes, and encourage them to pay attention to all of the “background” noises– such as the sound of their breaths, or people walking in the hallway, or the call of birds outside).
“What is advice? Have you ever asked someone for advice? Has anyone ever asked you for advice?” You can explore how trust plays a role in listening and giving advice.
“Would you ask someone for advice if you did not trust them? Why or why not?” After listening to some responses, you can then ask, “What are some ways that you can act so that people will trust you with giving them advice?” You can write down the responses on the board, and can also add (if it hasn’t already been said) that a big part of creating trust is really listening to the other person and not assuming that you already know their issue before they tell you.
With your students, read the Learning Journey story “I am Ibu” and watch “I am Ibu”. In the story, Ibu shares that sometimes people will come to her for advice.
To check for reading comprehension and inference, ask students, “What are some of the reasons that Ibu says she thinks people ask her for advice?” Some answers may include because Ibu listens and admits she doesn’t know everything but will try to help the best she can, because she has struggled herself, and because she can see things from different points of view. You can also ask students to reflect on how Ibu said she doesn’t always know the perfect solution to a problem. “Have you ever been in a situation like this? How do you respond if you think you don’t have an answer for a person? How do you think it might make the other person feel if you share that you aren’t perfect either, but still want to listen and learn about what they are going through?”
Let’s practicing listening to others when exploring math examples!
Explain to students that when they are comparing things by length and size through indirect measurement (such as the math example on page 3 of “I am Ibu”), people may want to use different things for comparison based on their backgrounds. For example, someone from a culture that uses chopsticks to eat may want to use that utensil to compare the length of a noodle, while someone who is used to eating with a fork may prefer to use it over chopsticks for measurements. Have students get into pairs or small groups and ask them to look at the math example on page 3 of “I am Ibu”. Tell them that while the example uses small squares to compare the length of the puddles, the group should to come up with more creative ways to compare measurements! Encourage students to listen to each other as they share ideas of what to use as tools for measurement, and especially ask “why” if they are wondering the reason a person picked a certain item. After that math example, have students look at the question about shapes (on page 2). Have them work together to determine what type of shape it is, and then to share the first thing that they can think of that is that shape. Encourage students to really listen to each other– instead of assuming why that person may have thought of that shape, encourage them to ask “why” that example came to mind. They might be surprised by some of the reasons!
Encourage students to reflect on how it makes them feel to have someone really listen to them.
“What are some words that explain how you feel when someone is really listening to you?” Examples might be that they feel important, special, or like the other person values what they have to say. Students can either write down some words or phrases in a journal, or share them with the class. Then, ask students to give some good listening advice that you can write down on the board. “What are some ways you can practice being a really good listener?” Examples could include not interrupting the other person, looking at them and not being distracted when they are talking, imagining what the other person is feeling, or really focusing on their words and not what you are going to say next.
This is one way to teach this story. You could also weave your own way, threading two or three other people the AI finds for you alongside.
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Weave a lesson →What's It Worth To You
Do you have a morning routine that you can share with me? This morning, I woke up at the time shown below– can you tell me what time that was? Was that time earlier or later than 4 a.m. (the time I usually wake up)?
Have you ever heard of a system where people exchange products for other products or services, instead of receiving money? What do you think about this kind of exchange? Have you ever made a trade like this before? How did it go?
Today, I bought $10 worth of coconut sugar from a seller. In exchange, she took vegetables (worth $4), soap (worth $1), and eggs (worth $2) from my shop. Can you add the cost of those products to find out their total monetary value? Do I still owe the seller money? Can you tell me how much?
Even though waking up early is not always easy, I think it is worth it. Have you ever done something that was hard, because it enabled you do something else that was really important to you? Can you share an example with me?
My one pair of shoes were very precious to me because my family could not afford multiple pairs– but I know that some people have many different shoes for every occasion! Is there anything in your life that you might think is really important, but other people do not think it is special? How does that make you feel, when people place a different value on things than you do? Do you think there is anything that you do not consider to be special, that might be really valuable to someone else?
Can you tell me about a time that you taught someone how to do something? Did you show them, or talk to them, or teach them some other way? How did it make you feel to see that person doing what you taught them?
Ask students to arrange their chairs in a circle for this lesson to encourage collaboration.
“What does it mean for something to be valuable? How do things become valuable?” You can begin the discussion by pointing out a common classroom item (such as a chair, pen, or notebook) and asking students to estimate how much they think it is worth.
You can write down the different answers on the board and then ask, “Why do you think people gave different answers? Do you think some things are worth different amounts to different people? Can you think of some of the reasons why?” Answers might include if a person already has it, or if it is the only one in the world, or if they have heard good/ bad things about it from other people, or if they can get it from many different places, or if they absolutely need it to survive.
With your students, read the Learning Journey story “Ibu’s Busy Mornings” and watch “I Am Ibu”. Ibu describes how she runs a small market from her home.
To check for comprehension, ask students, “When people bring Ibu coconut sugar, what are some options that the seller can do in exchange?” Answers should include the seller can either receive money or take goods from Ibu’s store. You can then ask students, “When Ibu receives coconut sugar, how do you think she decides what people can take from her store and how much of it?” You can explain to students that this is called a barter system, where people trade goods instead of using money.
With your students, set up a classroom barter system to practice math through trading! Explain to students that each person will be “selling” a different product (you can either assign the goods or have students pick their own).
Multiple students can have the same product, and try and have a mix of both “necessary” and “luxury” goods. Explain to students the differences between these two categories (what they “need” and what they “want”), and ask them to keep this in mind throughout the activity. Each student can write down the name of what they are selling on small pieces of paper to represent their goods and keep track of what they trade, and each student should start off with the same amount of goods. Tell your students that you are going to write down different situations that might affect the amount of goods that are produced, such as the invention of a new technology tool that can produce the good quicker or a war in the country where the good is produced (and you can invite students to share ideas too). Explain to students that while they are all starting off with the same amount of goods, you will periodically read one of the situations outloud and some students may receive additional pieces of paper as extra goods or have some removed if the situation affects their product. Students can then walk around and trade goods with one another. Step back for the first few minutes and observe rather than be involved, to see how students organize and work together to determine what the exchange rates should be for different goods. After you feel enough time has passed, begin to introduce the different situations (you can choose as many as time allows) and have the students who are affected by the events adjust their product amounts accordingly and then continue trading. Have students calculate their new amount of goods when this happens to practice addition and subtraction within 20 (such as on page 2 of the Learning Journey story “Ibu’s Busy Mornings”). To practice telling time (such as on page 1), ask students to look at a clock (or if they don’t have access to one, you can draw a clock image on the board with the time estimate) and write down the time each instance you change the situation.
After the activity, ask students to reflect on the meaning of “value” and how it is determined by what people are willing to buy and sell for, and why.
“Was the experience what you expected it to be? Who determined the value of a good– was it the seller, or buyer, or did they work together? Were the least and most valuable goods what you thought they would be?” You can then explore how different factors may have influenced this. “Did the students with “necessary” goods seem to trade more or less than those with “luxury” goods? What happened if there was more than one student selling the same thing? How did the different situational changes affect the trade?” You can wrap-up the lesson by asking students to share some things that they think are positive and negative about using a barter system.
This is one way to teach this story. You could also weave your own way, threading two or three other people the AI finds for you alongside.
Want to weave a full lesson around this story?
The weaver finds 3-4 real people whose stories thread together with this one.
Weave a lesson →Not hers. Not yours. People are always more than the chapters anyone could share. Hold what is here gently. Approach with curiosity, before judgment.
If a moment stayed, follow it. If a question rose up, hold it. The quiet teaching is still teaching.
Three or four real stories woven into one lesson, your topic, your time. Ibu is one. The weaver finds the others, threads the math, the literacy, the values, the reflection.
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